How we make …SPECIAL… have new meaning

Blog FVYD Sept  2025 How to make your life special!

Kids & teens do not get stuck in your past! …especially if there is pain there. Take the beaty from it and hold that dear! 

Do not get stuck in your present either—you can mold that to be great in your future….do it!  Here is how we get this done together…..

We look FORWARD and see our goodness—write it down on something—for you to remember this moment when you leave the past behind. 

Other kids do not tell you who you are! …Unless you let them. 

Your life is about YOU! Change your face, change the place and grow happy again. SMILE while you look into your mirror—into your eyes!

Deeply & once there, breathe– feel it—that is the feeling you what to get and to you protect for yourself. Your shoulders will come down. Pat yourself on the back!…cause you are greatness…THAT WILL FOR SURE MAKE YOU LAUGH. Hold that feeling also! 

Then do it again tomorrow before you start your day.

Life Skills work does that easily. Three to four shared talks (or once in a while just be with 3 different people one at a time or all at once—that is sharing too). Or to change a habit 3 to 4 shared months– is all it takes to heal and bring wellness into your life. Not for all but for most. This is the commitment to yourself & you need to decide to make it– to know yourself and to grow yourself forward with a new smile of achievement for your self- LOVE in the future. Whatever that means for you is perfect! (So your new mantra to speak is , “when you feel that gut punch say no, and let it go!” ). Pick your head up and become MINDFULL AND WALK ANYWHERE—“SEE” THE WORLD BEFORE YOU. HEAR THE BIRDS, SPEAK YOUR NEW TRUTHS….THERE YOU ARE WHOLE AND HEALTHY! DO IT AGAIN….AND AGAIN NOW YOU HAVE IT! “YOUR THE BEST”….BELIEVE IT AND CHANGE YOUR FACE TO A SMILE. Hold that thought and that beautiful face-yours! Have a nice day!…Enjoy every day forward!… And just be glad to share words, thoughts and deeds with others who need you also!

*Deborah Parker Pres. Future Visions Youth Development, Inc a 501 c3 Non-profit in need of donations